What You Need to Know about Finding a Preschool [and Affording Tuition]

It’s preschool open house season! This article from last July will clue you in on what to expect.

The preschool application process for kids three to five is quite an eye opener for many parents. If you’re like me, you had no idea that getting your child into her first preschool program could be just about as involved as applying to college. I’ve put together this article to help you find a few ways to make it easier and more affordable.

When to Start Looking

In many areas, the demand for preschool outpaces supply, so it pays to start your research early. I’ve heard stories of some parents putting their children on the preschool waiting list before they were born! Hopefully things won’t be so extreme in your town. Still, it’s smart to start researching preschools a year ahead and plan on touring schools and submitting applications at the beginning of the year in which you’d like your child to start. Most schools offer open houses and enrollment periods as early as January.

How Much?

Accompanying the question of how to get your child into a good program (for most of us anyway), is the equally important consideration of how you’ll afford it. Preschool tuition costs generally run anywhere from about $250 to $1000 per month (even more in larger cities like Chicago and New York). That’s $3000 to $12,000 a year. Yikes! That price varies wildly according to your region, the type of preschool and the number of hours per week your child will attend.

Some types of childcare tend to be more affordable than others. Church-based preschools are some of the most affordable schools around. Whereas a local Montessori school in my area charged around $1000 a month, the church-based school we loved charged less than $300. Co-ops tend to be more affordable, too, but require a time commitment from parents. Even if your school’s not a co-op, see if you can work off a portion of your tuition by spending a few hours per week at the school.

The cost of full time care for a pre-K kiddo in my state (Georgia) is around $500 a month. Take a look at costs in your region using the map here. Note: The cost may be more manageable if you can pay in installments. Look for a school that lets you pay monthly rather than asking for a year’s tuition up front or in two payments.

Important Questions for Potential Schools

Schools are pretty upfront about how much they charge. Still, there are a few crucial questions you should ask potential schools before you make any commitments. They’ll help you avoid sticker shock later.

  • Ask about scholarships and tuition assistance.
  • Ask if you can get a discount when you enroll more than one child at a time.
  • Ask about activity and materials fees and any other fees beyond tuition that you’ll be asked to pay.

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10 Best Baby Products of 2011

Which baby products are definitely worth buying? Ask the masses!

Yesterday I asked BC Facebook Fans to give me their nominations for “Best Baby Product of 2011.” Here are the ten baby products that made fans’ lives easier this year (listed more or less in order of popularity). I’ve linked to each product at Amazon so that you can find out more about it.

And great news! 7 of the top 10 items below are around $50 or less.

Runners Up: Medela Pump in Style Electric Breast Pump, Sophie the Giraffe, Beco Butterfly 2 carrier, Fisher-Price Jumperoo, Wubbanub

If you take a look at last year’s list of top products, you’ll see that this year’s list features some repeat performers as well as some new items.

What would you add to the list?

The ABCs of Affording Preschool

The preschool application process for kids three to five is quite an eye opener for many parents. If you’re like me, you had no idea that getting your child into her first preschool program could be just about as involved as applying to college. I’ve put together this article to help you find a few ways to make it easier and more affordable.

When to Start Looking

In many areas, the demand for preschool outpaces supply, so it pays to start your research early. I’ve heard stories of some parents putting their children on the preschool waiting list before they were born! Hopefully things won’t be so extreme in your town. Still, it’s smart to start researching preschools a year ahead and plan on touring schools and submitting applications at the beginning of the year in which you’d like your child to start. Most schools offer open houses and enrollment periods as early as January.

How Much?

Accompanying the question of how to get your child into a good program (for most of us anyway), is the equally important consideration of how you’ll afford it. Preschool tuition costs generally run anywhere from about $250 to $1000 per month. That’s $3000 to $12,000 a year. Yikes! That price varies wildly according to your region, the type of preschool and the number of hours per week your child will attend.

Some types of childcare tend to be more affordable than others. Church-based preschools are some of the most affordable schools around. Whereas a local Montessori school in my area charged around $1000 a month, the church-based school we loved charged less than $300. Co-ops tend to be more affordable, too, but require a time commitment from parents. Even if your school’s not a co-op, see if you can work off a portion of your tuition by spending a few hours per week at the school.

The cost of full time care for a pre-K kiddo in my state (Georgia) is around $500 a month. Take a look at costs in your region using the map here. Note: The cost may be more manageable if you can pay in installments. Look for a school that lets you pay monthly rather than asking for a year’s tuition up front or in two payments.

Important Questions for Potential Schools

Schools are pretty upfront about how much they charge. Still, there are a few crucial questions you should ask potential schools before you make any committments. They’ll help you avoid sticker shock later.

  • Ask about scholarships and tuition assistance.
  • Ask if you can get a discount when you enroll more than one child at a time.
  • Ask about activity and materials fees and any other fees beyond tuition that you’ll be asked to pay.

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Readers’ Top 15 Parenting Books

A few months ago I asked readers to tell me their all-time favorite parenting book. I’ve sorted through more than 300 responses to create the list below. The top 5 are the most popular, followed by ten runners-up in no particular order.

I’ve linked to the books at Amazon so that you can find out more about them, read reviews, etc. You should be able to find them used or at your local library. Enjoy!

Top 5

Healthy Sleep Habits, Happy Child by Marc Weissbluth

The Baby Book: Everything You Need to Know About Your Baby from Birth to Age Two by Dr. William and Martha Sears

Baby 411: Clear Answers & Smart Advice for Your Baby’s First Year (Baby 411: Clear Answers and Smart Advice for Your Baby’s First Year by Ari Brown, M.D. and Denise Fields

On Becoming Baby Wise: Giving Your Infant the Gift of Nighttime Sleep by Gary Ezzo and Robert Bucknam

Secrets of the Baby Whisperer by Tracy Hogg

The Rest of the Best

The No-Cry Sleep Solution: Gentle Ways to Help Your Baby Sleep Through the Night by Elizabeth Pantley

Solve Your Child’s Sleep Problems by Dr. Richard Ferber

Happiest Baby on the Block: The New Way to Calm Crying and Help Your Newborn Baby Sleep Longer by Harvey Karp

What to Expect The  First Year by Heidi Murkoff

Raising Your Spirited Child Rev Ed: A Guide for Parents Whose Child Is More Intense, Sensitive, Perceptive, Persistent, and Energetic by Mary Sheedy Kurcinka

Parenting with Love and Logic by Foster Cline and Jim Fay

Playful Parenting by Lawrence J. Cohen

The Five Love Languages of Children by Gary Chapman

Baby Bargains: Secrets to Saving 20% to 50% on Baby Furniture, Equipment, Clothes, Toys, Maternity Wear and Much, Much More! by Denise and Alan Fields

Super Baby Food by Ruth Yaron

Did your favorite parenting book make the list?